Wednesday, April 25, 2012

Plain rice is my favorite

Sadly today, both the dals I made got burnt, and it was already time for dinner.
Luckily rice was safe and ready.
But no dal...

And already half an hr late for Nikhils dinner,
So quickly boiled a pack of vegetables, tossed some powdered pepper 
And convinced myself to feed Nikhil plain rice + plain vegetables + a Huge portion of my guilt

Only to hear Nikhil say,
"WOW. Plain rice mummy. Thats my favorite. Thank you for that"!!

Kids :-)

Wednesday, April 11, 2012

So when is Tamil New Year..

As if, it is not already hard enough, to explain to my non Indian colleagues, who innocently ask, 
"So when is your Indian New Year?" 

For which I need to give a concise, no more than a minute answer, which would start "Indian New Year?? You must be joking.. See in India......" and go on and on covering everything from the multiple languages, cultures, traditions and their interplay, and their evolution of Indianism from BC to now what I See, have in their kindest spirits, now bestowed upon us the many many New Years...

All this only to get a response, which borders on, "Oh my God, why did I ever ask this question"

So now, every 5 years I have to also explain, why Tamil New Year, keeps changing, between January and April..

And as history has shown, with our highly competitive Indian political parties, always trying to beat the other..
What else could happen...

How about banning Diwali in TN, because there is a folklore in the North, that Diwali is celebrated for Rama's victory in Lanka?

Or may be we can call a truce and  Thai New Year will  be celebrated in the villages, and Chittirai New Year in the rest of TN?

Imagine the plight of calendar making community,on an election year??? May be they will print two sets of calendars.. 
The amount of time and money that would be wasted every change in CM, all just to redo the calendars.

How about an Board exam question, "Write about tamil culture?" So students writing about 
Thai Tamil New Year, will be marked wrong if there is a change in power inbetween the gap of writing the exams and the corrections??

For what it worth, I definitely vote for Chittirai Tamil New Year, for the single reason that,
we already have holidays on Thai Thingal &enough delicacies to be dished out on account of Pongal......

The chittirai Tamil New Year is like the much needed summer showers, a festive way for kids to start the summer holidays, after a long hard school year

Whatever, life will go on, even if it is amidst all this chaos!!!

Wednesday, April 4, 2012

My middle name is chaos

If there is anything that these many years on earth, has taught me, it is that,
I am going to be an eternal pupil, life always teaching me something new, each day and each second.

Life is the only journey, we dont know the destination, yet are always thinking that we know where we want to go

Sometimes I am happy, sometimes sad,
Sometimes I get it, sometimes I dont,
Sometimes I catch it, sometimes I lose it
Sometimes I fall and stay their hurt
Sometimes I fall and get up to be my best
Yet all the times, I am alive

Each day I look at myself in the mirror, I see a different me.
Days I want to be the best mom on earth
Days I want to be the best wife on earth
Days I want to be the best @work
Days I want wake my sleeping stove top

Days when nothing planned happens
Days when I dont want to do anything, just go away from all this, and just stare at the stars

The only common link in all this is, change.
Each day is different, each day is new,
Each day is lots of things, anything but few.....






Hoping that my thoughts here, will help me understand myself!!